There is nothing worse than teenager problems in the summer time.  As the elders say, idle time is the devil’s time. (Especially, if you happen to be raising an African-American son in the inner-city)  For that reason, I will be making sure my 14-year-old son has very little free time this summer.  If your teenager has phased out of summer camp or will not be working a job, here are a few activities to keep them busy during the dog days of summer.


[big_title]Do More Chores[/big_title]

A little bit more chores go a long way when your teen is at home with nowhere to go, but toward trouble. As I always say, chores give your teenager time to think and teach work ethic.  Get some of your long-term cleaning projects done with the help of your son.  On my list for my 14-year-old this summer is cleaning out our garage and basement and linen closet.  Dishing out some long-term cleaning projects to your teenager can easily take up 3-4 hours of their day.



[big_title]Help Someone Run Their Business[/big_title]

If you have a business your teen should learn how to run it with you.  Think of your business as a entrepreneurial incubator for your teenager.  Teenagers love social media, give them criteria and teach them how to run your social media pages.  Gotta hand out flyers? Your teenager has young legs and nothing to do. Teenagers should begin to understand the personal and professional skill set required to be an entrepreneur.  If you don’t teach them, who will?



[big_title]Get to the Back of the Bus[/big_title]

By the end of this summer your teenager (13+) should be well-versed in the ins and outs of public transportation. One of the crippling characteristics of modern young adults is a lack of problem-solving skills.  Riding the bus was sooo beneficial to me as a youth. I learned time management skills because I had to schedule catching the bus to get to places on-time.  Through the freedom of transporting myself, I learned to shop for myself, get back and forth to friends and family members homes and the people skills necessary when spending time with strangers.  Up to this very day, if I don’t have a car, I’m cool.  I’ll get right back on the bus and pick up where I left off.  A car is not a handicap for me, it’s an enhancement.



[big_title]Learn to Babysit[/big_title]

Can your teen be trusted with his younger siblings? What about an elderly adult for a few hours?  If not, then he’s got work to do this summer.  Everyone in our society is appalled at how our nation treats it’s children and elderly Much of that is due to our modern teens having lost their ability to take care of those in our community who need us the most.  When teenagers spend time with the elderly and children they grow up with empathy for them.  Help your teenager strengthen his reliability skills by making him accountable for a person other than himself.  This will help build the fatherly and husband-like characteristics he’ll need later in his life.  (Much later, like 30 years later)



[big_title]Hit the Block[/big_title]

No, I’m just jokin’. LOL.  He shouldn’t become a street pharmacist, but he should clean up the block his house sits on.  Rather he helps a neighbor cut their hedges, cleans up trash on the street or cuts some of his elderly neighbor’s grass, your son should learn to be the change he wants to see in his community. Last summer, my son helped me rehab a vacant lot.  Now, we all have a sense of responsibility for our block because we are active participants in its upkeep.  This is a great time to give your teen a reason to bring the genius he/she will gain in life back to their neighborhood.



Hope this helps mamas.  [icon name=”li_heart” size=”18px” color=”#ff87ab” link=””]

Read More About Raising Teenagers:

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Activities to do with Big Kids & Teens in Pittsburgh


Muffy Mendoza

Hello. Welcome to a blog for Black moms looking to thrive while raising kids in this hectic world and the headquarters for Pittsburgh Brown Mamas, a Pittsburgh support group for Black moms. Here I write about raising my three boys, living in and loving Pittsburgh, dating my husband, gardening and all kinds of other stuff. Thanks for visiting. Stay long & come often!

4 thoughts on “5 Ways to Avoid Teenager Problems This Summer”

Muffy Mendoza . June 16, 2016 at 5:27 pm

No problem. Thanks did commenting. We put a little free library on our neighborhood last summer. It was a great experience for the family. Best of luck!

Funnermother . June 16, 2016 at 5:12 pm

Wow, mama, this is great! My 13-yo is rather resistant, and now I’m going to say “look, Muffy said so!” haha. I keep hoping we are going to get a little free library going in our rather mixed neighborhood (ages, races, sex, class, all of it). So that’s one project I think I’ll ask him to spearhead… haha. Then plan to at least get some help from him! 😉

Muffy Mendoza . June 15, 2016 at 9:16 am

Thanks for commenting Nicole. From toddler to teen is a long journey and us mamas need all the help we can get on our journey. Anytime!

Nicole Williams . June 15, 2016 at 9:09 am

This is such a great post! I don’t have any teenagers yet but these tips are great for when my little man is older!

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