All couples have intimacy issues as they grow and marriage. Getting married is easy.  Staying a couple is hard.  In any relationship, the way you express your love to one another changes as the two people in it grow and mature. That’s why the way you show your mate you care and love them MUST change over-time as well.

Couples having intimacy issues need to understand that intimacy with your spouse should be characterized by spending time with one another, understanding the physical and spiritual needs of your partner and the depth of your connectivity with your spouse.  NOT, just sexuality.  Being able to only express the love you have with your mate through sex is a sign of emotional and intellectual immaturity.

A couples calendar is a great way to create a mature love relationship that feeds each member of the relationship physically, emotionally and intellectually.


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Muffy Mendoza

Hello. Welcome to a blog for Black moms looking to thrive while raising kids in this hectic world and the headquarters for Pittsburgh Brown Mamas, a Pittsburgh support group for Black moms. Here I write about raising my three boys, living in and loving Pittsburgh, dating my husband, gardening and all kinds of other stuff. Thanks for visiting. Stay long & come often!

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